The Nightmare Continues...

An update. This is continued from the previous post...

Thank you everyone. Your comments and messages have warmed my heart. I have a unbelievable support group!

He showed up here last night, even when I told him I would call the police if he did. I didn't answer the door, I didn't see him. I talked to the police for an hour, told them everything. However, it happened in a different country, so there's nothing they can do.... understandable. I didn't want it to even come to this, I wanted him to leave me alone and just go our separate ways.

The cops left and I figured he was going to be arrested... his messages and voicemails would have me to believe he was under the influence... BUT I knew he wasn't arrested because he started texting and calling me again! Despite the cops telling him to leave me alone.

I called the officer I was dealing with right away and told him. He told me that they had no grounds for arrest, the bulk of what happened, happened in another country, he had no alcohol in his system. They don't test for drugs. They let him drive away. Unbelievable. He advised me to get a restraining order in the morning... Start the paper trail.

The ex is now threatening my job. Accusing me of cheating. Accusing me of stealing some of his drugs. Still calling me names and now he's oober pissed I involved the police.

I have looked into blocking him from being able to contact me on my cell all together. Telus has no such thing set up for that. (Rogers did. Man, do I ever miss Rogers now.) They offered to change my phone number for free, I don't want to! I've had this number for years! You would think that the iPhone would have that capability... Nope. An app for that? Not that I can find. However if I had a jailbroken iPhone, BINGO!

People... Fucking screen the people you are going to date. Follow your gut feelings! Listen to that voice in the back of your head! Listen to your friends, they mean well!

I am now heading out to start that wonderful paper trail... This most definitely isn't over yet! What a nightmare!